Keep Pursuing

Each Friday morning I get together with several guys- right now, we're talking about this .

Our first chapter from this book talks about for guys, dating is like playing a game and getting married is like the game is over.  When we dated our spouses, we wooed.  We were thoughtful.  We pursued.  And then we got married, and saw life like these shirts.

The problem is that many of us guys stop pursuing or pursue less.  We no longer leave notes, send flowers, or do the things that we did when we were dating because we've accomplished the point- marriage.

And yet as we learned a couple weeks ago, the reality is that we need to keep pursuing.  After marriage, dating our spouse, pursuing our spouse, is just as important as it was before the marriage.